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Georgia to gay parent - do not ‘expose’ kids to the homos

There’s not much more you can say about a family court system that is this absurd.  (PinkNews):

A gay man in the US state of Georgia is disputing a child custody agreement restriction which prohibits him from “exposing his children to his homosexual partners and friends.”

Lambda Legal, a gay rights advocacy group, yesterday filed an amicus brief in support of Eric Mongerson at the Georgia Supreme Court. The brief argues that restrictions on custody arrangements should not be determined based on sexual orientation and that no evidence exists that contact with gay acquaintances of their father is harmful.

“The court should do what it always does in divorce cases with custody issues, which is to focus on the needs of the children,” said Beth Littrell, Staff Attorney in Lambda Legal’s Southern Regional Office.  “Placing a blanket ban on “exposure” to gay people hardly helps a gay dad maintain his relationship with his children.

...“This order hinders Mr Mongerson’s ability to maintain his relationship with his children as he is under a court order to treat other gay people as pariahs based solely on their sexual orientation.”

Using this logic it might be wise to tell the court to keep the children away from priests, evangelical pastors and other religious figures since way too many of them are a danger to children.

Other suggested demos to avoid exposing kids to, from a reader:
* Republican politicians (at least the most vocal ones who oppose us, they always seem to have something to hide)
* highly religious bible-beating spouses and their friends (because they seem to have something to hide)
* all heterosexual men (since by far they have the largest by percentage and total count of the occurrences of child molestation)
* any conservative talk-show, radio personalities, or “so-called” experts (because they have high occurrences of drug abuse, both illegal and prescription).

Hat tip, JMG.

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Posted by Pam Spaulding on 12:48 AM • (21) Comments

But what if teh gay mutates and goes airborne?

Comment #1: asdf  on  02/20  at  01:21 AM

Other suggested demos to avoid exposing kids to, from a reader:
[...]
* all heterosexual men

How loud are they?  I might be all for mandating this one, at least in public areas.

You’re forgetting:

* Bankers, FX merchants, or anyone who diddles around with money for a profit
* Real estate salespeople
* Librarians (we make a point of getting them hooked on an expensive product from an early age…)

Comment #2: Phoenician in a time of Romans  on  02/20  at  01:52 AM

Pedophiles tend to be attracted to places where children congregate, such as parks and schools.  Better keep the child away from there too.

Comment #3: Mrs. W  on  02/20  at  01:59 AM

We should probably just keep children away from all adults.  You know pack the tikes off to some remote island where they can remain ignorant and pure forever.

Comment #4: semi_factual  on  02/20  at  02:47 AM

Semi-factual is right.  An adult-free island is clearly the ideal environment in which kids should be raised.  Who knew Lord of the Flies was the ultimate child-rearing manual?

Man, I never cease to be ashamed of my state of residence.

Comment #5: noodlegirl  on  02/20  at  02:59 AM

For every step forward, three steps back.

Comment #6: Blue Fielder  on  02/20  at  05:17 AM

What people don’t get is that children have become the “cash cow” for the legal system.  There is no access to the federal courts for blatant constitutional violations by the family law courts of Georgia or any other states thanks to a little known and even less understood republican doctrine called the “Rooker - Feldman doctrine.  The expense of going to the Supreme Court of any state is astronomical and beyond the means of most citizens.

When and if the Plaintiff wins in this case the court will “remand the case back to the same judge who made this ridiculous ruling in the first place with some narrow “recommendation that he shouldn’t so clearly express his own prejudices in his rulings and he will be free to do whatever he desires and I mean whatever.  At the top of his/her desires will be the desire to teach a lesson to whomever embarrassed and made a fool of him by appealing his order to a higher authority.  I have seen it over and over and over again in Georgia.

Katz v. Katz in the early nineties a mother appealed what was called a draconian order (Atlanta Journal Constitution) by a Gwinnett County,  Judge Richard Weingarden, when she “won” and the case was remanded back to the judge he simply took custody away from her.  So much for winning.  In other cases I have observe the a person “win” in the Georgia Supreme Court and when the case went back to the losing judge, Michael Clark, Gwinnett County, Georgia he simply declared that they hadn’t reversed him and went on with business as usual.  When the “winner” went back to the Supreme Court to enforce their order they declined saying they didn’t have jurisdiction over their own previously decided case.

The judicial Qualifications Committee is equally devoid of any moral or ethical authority.  When a citizen complained that Judges were practicing law in their own courtrooms.  The complaints were dismissed, citing the first sentence of a two sentence statute.  the first sentence stating that magistrate judges may practice laws (act as attorneys).  The second being that they MAY NOT practice in their own courtroom.  I will guarantee you everyone involve will make lots of money, the judges, the lawyers, the court reporters, etc., and that the biggest loser will be the child and the parent who dared complain to the dishonorable Georgia Supreme Court.  the court will, of course be the loudest in voicing their concern for “the best interest of the child.”  The media will disappear after the Supreme’s rule and never report the sorry end of the case because that would destroy the grand illusion of our justice system and oh, never mind, it doesn’t matter anyway…

Comment #7: knowdoubt  on  02/20  at  09:45 AM

It makes me wonder if this judge thinks Teh Ghey is contagious.

Comment #8: bananacat  on  02/20  at  09:57 AM

Actually, priests and other religious figures have been proven to be *worse* for children than out gay men. Your typical out gay man is, firstly, not a pedophile, and secondly, perfectly capable of getting an adult, consenting gay man to go to bed with him. Your typical Catholic priest has some reason to want to avoid adult sexuality and is under enormous pressure to never appear to be sexual, so even the ones who *aren’t* pedophiles might prey on young people simply because young people can be intimidated into keeping their mouths shut.

And, of course, while the vast majority of men are not pedophiles, the vast majority of pedophiles are men. Therefore children should be kept away from men. Including their own fathers, uncles and older brothers, because the rate of children being sexually abused by fathers, uncles and brothers is much higher than the rate of children being sexually abused by total strangers.

Maybe children should just be raised in a virtual reality box.

Comment #9: Alara J Rogers  on  02/20  at  12:15 PM

Hey, if you can tell parents not to practice their religion as a condition of custody, why not pick the sexual orientation of their friends? It’s important to remember that frontline judge positions in the US don’t go to anything like legal scholars. They often don’t even have to go to someone with a law degree. Just political or business connections. So decisions like this are disgusting bumt not surprising.

Comment #10: paul  on  02/20  at  12:19 PM

There is no access to the federal courts for blatant constitutional violations by the family law courts of Georgia or any other states thanks to a little known and even less understood republican doctrine called the “Rooker - Feldman doctrine.

No, that’s not what the Rooker-Feldman doctrine does.  If you litigate in state court and lose, you have to appeal up the ladder—to the state Supreme Court, and then the US Supreme Court.  You are not allowed to appeal sideways, from a state trial court to a federal trial court. 

It’s ideologically neutral—I’ve invoked it against a large insurance company hell-bent on not paying benefits required under a state judgment.  And if you think federal courts are more sympathetic to constitutional claims than state courts, you haven’t paid much attention to who has been appointed to the federal bench in the last 29 years . . .

Comment #11: rea  on  02/20  at  12:32 PM

Rea,

Puhleeeze, if limiting an aspiring appellant to the Federal Court System to SCOTUS accepting a petition of certiorari, is not limiting access to Federal Courts then, you must have your head up your rear far enough to conduct an endoscopy while there.  Scotus hears less than one percent of the petitions it receives and the ones they hear rarely have any relation to requirements such as settling conflicting opinions of the appellate courts on similar issues.  Having a petition accepted by SCOTUS is less likely than winning the lottery, irregardless of the merits or anything else.

You have obviously chosen to line up under the “less understood column.”  Regardless of the anecdotal evidence,  you said, “It’s ideologically neutral—”  This quote from the Duke Law Journal:

“The principle behind the Rooker-Feldman doctrine1 seems simple enough: of all the federal courts, only the United States Supreme Court has appellate jurisdiction over state court judgments.2 Yet from this innocuous principle rooted in our country’s federalist foundations …”(emphasis added)

Here is the link should you care to educate yourself.  It just goes to show, one doesn’t have to have much understanding to “invoke” anything.

You suggest that,

“And if you think federal courts are more sympathetic to constitutional claims than state courts, you haven’t paid much attention to who has been appointed to the federal bench in the last 29 years . . .”

You must be practiced at ignoring history, the issue is not how many Republicans v Democrats have been appointed to the federal bench, but when States (think Georgia. Mississippi, Alabama) and their courts systematically engaged in the denial of fundamental constitutional rights to say, for instance, discrimination against racial minorities it has taken federal intervention to make the needed correction and bring them in compliance with the U.S. Constitution. 

This Federalist doctrine was legislatively suspended by our Republican brethren in congress to allow the Supremes to bloviate on the Terry Schiavo case and suspended by the Supremes so the conservative majority could bless the country with their selection of an idiot savant, George
W. Bush, as President.  Your assertions were disingenuous at best.

Comment #12: knowdoubt  on  02/20  at  02:02 PM

This case was apparently filed before October 31, 2007, see Ga Supremes web site here.  At the same site the GA Supremes also have posted an article headlined, “GEORGIA SUPREME COURT RANKED NATION’S MOST PRODUCTIVE” see it for your self here.  Very apropos that the study went no further than just counting opinions issued by the court - no judgment concerning the garbage that might be contained within said opinions.

If you think a child might be permanently harmed or effected by this overt reinforcement of discriminatory behavior then you should be outraged.  It would seem that the court, in it’s wisdom and disinterest in the good of the people, perpetuated this abomination for going on two years and probably much longer, if we had access to the the filings and could see when the original order being appealed was filed.

I also find it amazing that we hear about this case referencing a UK publication (Pink News) and not a publication in this country like say the Atlanta Journal Constitution.  The previous Public Relations Officer of the court bragged that the media only printed what they sent them when I inquired as to why there were rarely any reportes present in the court. I hope someone can copy and post the petitions and related briefs since they are a matter of public record.  I am sure they would be enlightening.

The last time I tried to copy some public records in Gwinnett County using a economically feasible digital camera I was threatened with arrest and prohibited by the Gwinnett County Court Clerk.  this was despite a Open Public Records Act posted here on the Georgia Secretary of States web site.  They insist on the 50 cent/pg copying fee which can mount up in a hurry when copying legal documents further limiting the public’s access to information.

Comment #13: knowdoubt  on  02/20  at  02:39 PM

knowdoubt, I do know a little about the Rooker-Feldman doctrine, having briefed and argued it in actual litigation on a number of occasions. I’ve been litigating such issues for 30 years. Doubtless this knowledge does not compare to your vast experience in these matters, but still . . .

You are attacking an ideologically neutral procedural rule on the basis that you don’t like the substantive results reached under the rule, without any showing of any likelihood of better results under a different rule.

Yes, back in the 50s and 60s, federal courts played an important role in breaking down Jim Crow.  I don’t know if you’d get those same results today with the pack of right wingnuts presently manning the federal system.  But, more importantly, Rooker has been around since 1923. All of the courageous federal decisions you are thinking of were consistent with Rooker-Feldman.  Right wingnuts are just as capable of using the federal system they now control as an instrument of oppression as they were the state courts.

Look aat the Shiavo case, which you mention but fail to understand. Rooker-Feldman prevented the wingnuts from using the federal system to “save” Terry Shiavo.  It was only when Congress passed a special statute exempting the Shiavo case from Rooker-Feldman that the federal case could go forward. Fortunately, the federal courts in this instance delcined to interfere with the stte court results. 

If you want a system in which every state child custody decision is followed by a round of federal litigation rehashing all the same issues, and you think that such a system will lead to better results—well, despite you vast knowledge of Rooker-Feldman, you’re a fool.

Comment #14: rea  on  02/20  at  02:56 PM

Rea,

Comparing “your vast experience” with my vast experience is really not the issue or decisive of any debate, something akin to a “straw argument” and your clear reaching for “authority”.  Your complete lack of reference for your claims speaks volumes about their validity.  The number of briefs I’ve written versus the number of briefs you’ve written is hardly definitive or decisive of a debate, although I am not without briefs either.

I was being gracious when I called your argument disingenuous, I was aware of your allusions, or should I say illusions,  to a legal background, but without being sure I wanted to excuse what appeared to be deliberately perpetuating a fraud.  Anyone who would suggest that the Rooker – Feldman Doctrine is simple, can’t possible understand it and I would challenge you to reference any professional literature that would support such a position.  I’ve given you quite respectable references suggesting Rooker Feldman is based in ideology and all you offer in return is chest thumping and saber rattling.  You sir are the epitome of what is wrong with the so called “legal profession” and that would be a total lack of professionalism.  Don’t waste my time or anyone else’s with bull shit, take it into a courtroom where it would be more likely to be appreciated or shall we say tolerated.

Comment #15: knowdoubt  on  02/20  at  03:25 PM

I am not without briefs either.

Well, that’s reassuring—I wouldn’t want to think you’re posting commando-style.

Comment #16: rea  on  02/20  at  03:30 PM

Rea,

Well, let me assure you - I wouldn’t want you to think I care in the least what you think.  I have zero tolerance for intellectual dishonesty hiding behind the cloak of “legal authoritarianism.”

Comment #17: knowdoubt  on  02/20  at  04:22 PM

P.S. the suggestion, “If you want a system in which every state child custody decision is followed by a round of federal litigation rehashing all the same issues, and you think that such a system will lead to better results—well, despite you vast knowledge of Rooker-Feldman, you’re a fool”.  Not foolish enough not to recognize another, what must be deliberate, misrepresentation of the facts.  Not every custody order (very few as a matter of fact) contains egregious violations of basic constitutionally protected fundamental rights and if they did that would be a very good argument for getting these issues considered by the Federal Courts.  When B.O. said government was broken I didn’t hear him exclude the judicial branch, did anyone else?

“That Rooker has been around since 1923,” is another example of a misleading argument.  Rooker (Rooker v. Fidelity Trust Co., 263 U.S. 413 (1923)) might lead the less legal astute to think that the Rooker - Feldman doctrine has been around since 1923, not true.  Rooker is only half of the name and less than half of the doctrine.  The Rooker - Feldman Doctrine continues to evolve but it certainly wasn’t developed until 1983 when “District of Columbia Court of Appeals v. Feldman,” 460 U.S. 462 (1983) was decided.  The “doctrine” continues to be controversial and evolving in interpretation, once again best stated by the article in the Duke Law Review previously referred to as follows, “Although Exxon Mobil cut away at much of Rooker-Feldman’s ground cover, it left the doctrine’s federalist roots intact.  This case was decided in 2005 and the review leaves no doubt that the doctrine has its roots in Federalist ideology and continues to evolve and hopefully will disappear in its present form.

Comment #18: knowdoubt  on  02/20  at  07:59 PM

knowdoubt & rea

Very interesting discussion for all of us non-legal types. From my vantage point, I’m going to have to give the argument to knowdoubt. The inability to appeal to federal courts has been a way to deny rights to minorities for many decades.  Gay men and women are just the latest group to suffer under this burden.

Comment #19: Bucky  on  02/21  at  12:36 AM

Just so you know, I’m not a lawyer and proud of it, I have too much self respect and independence to go there.  I have fought over the Rooker - Feldman Doctrine and I know it well.  I have fought a couple of basic constitutional rights battles in State Court one all the way to the Supreme Court and “won” .  One against local government over something so simple and basic as due process.

I couldn’t find one local attorney who was willing to concede that I knew what I was talking about or take my case, so I did it myself.  They weren’t about to admit they were all afraid to cross the powers that existed in local government.  It had to do with zoning which can get a little complex, but some things are really pretty simple.  A zoning change rendered our house uninhabitable and it was done without notice of any kind.  Torture is pretty simple, despite the tortured language used by Woo and others to arrive at a finding that torture wasn’t torture.  When I did my legal cases the internet wasn’t available, ugh, but now anything, like even the Rooker - Feldman Doctrine, is available at the touch of your fingertips if one is interested.

I don’t mind an academic disagreement, but basic fundamental dishonesty, I’ve seen too much, like Woo and others who have virtually brought this country to it’s knees, morally, ethically and financially and are now ensconced in their ivory tower at Berkley churning out more little fascists or mansion in Dallas enjoying all the fruits of their rape and pillage of our country.

The legal profession is without accountability as are so many others.  If we don’t demand some accountability the same old dishonesty and hypocrisy will continue.  BTW, the county attorney who lost the “Due Process” case is now a judge and I would hate to find myself in front of him.  They could have won any time just by admitting a mistake and giving me a hearing and then doing what they wanted to do, but they are so full of themselves that they will continue over a cliff rather than admit a mistake to just a nobody plain old citizen and so it goes on an on.

It was never about “winning” with me (I like to be right just as much as the next person but not at the expense of being wrong, intellectually) it was about how to conduct a debate looking for the truth.  This problem has permeated our national discourse for much too long on really important matters like global climate change, when some people are clearly promoting a lie that endangers the planet why even give them a forum, there really is no disagreement in science, except maybe how bad but everyone agrees it’s bad.

Comment #20: knowdoubt  on  02/21  at  08:41 AM

@knowdoubt

off topic, but thanks for the info. i’ll admit that i rather share your distaste for the legal profession. my few forays into that arena have been harrowing, at best (child custody issues with gay parents). my views are also colored by the fact that my brother-in-law is a lawyer—a very successful one by all accounts—and he is without a doubt the most unethical person i know. his end justifies any and every mean. that he isn’t in jail is a testament to the wide-spread corruption of our legal system.

Comment #21: Bucky  on  02/21  at  11:00 AM
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