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My letter to President-Elect Obama

Before the election, The Advocate asked me to write a letter to the Dem and GOP nominees for president. The magazine planned to feature missives from various well-known voices in the LGBT community; it was an interesting idea, since we didn’t know the outcome of the election at the time. It appears in the latest issue of the magazine and it’s online now.

You know, the thought of writing a letter to President-elect John McCain was so horrific that I simply couldn’t get my fingers onto the keyboard to tap out anything. So I begged off until the deadline was almost upon me  and was told I could submit the one for Obama since the polling was favoring the former Illinois senator. It took me a while to figure out what I was going to say to President-elect Obama at the time, but I’ll leave it to you all to tell me if I hit the right note or not.

Dear President Obama,

You have made history with your election; our country, left in tatters after abuse by the last administration, is awaiting positive change. Millions of Americans gave to your campaign and dedicated countless hours of their time and energy to support you and other Democrats around the country. Many of these generous people are part of the LGBT community.

This year, the Democratic Party presented a forward-thinking platform on our issues, and you as the standard-bearer made unprecedented statements on what civil equality for LGBT Americans means. That said, the gulf between your support for civil unions and marriage, as you well know, is still a challenge for our community. As a constitutional scholar, you know that separate but equal is a folly when it comes to civil rights. But we also know that support for equality continues to rise.

There are many things you can do to help move this country in the right direction; as you have said, your personal religious beliefs are not what should guide your decisions on civil equality for all citizens of this land. Building bridges is your strong suit—I am sure that these efforts could help close that gap:

• Appoint qualified out LGBTs to prominent positions in your administration. We care about the economy, health care, and our military presence abroad; we are not a single-issue constituency.

• Use the bully pulpit of the presidency to grow support out in the country—and on the Hill—for the repeal of “don’t ask, don’t tell,” the passage of the hate-crimes bill, and other equality legislation that is on the table.

The LGBT community is just one of dozens, if not hundreds, of constituencies that have been waiting out in the cold for regime change, and they are all hungry to have their progressive issues at the top of the list. We know that the issues we hold dear are fundamental rights, and we also know that you have been left with an almost impossible list of issues that need urgent attention, given the debacle of eight years under Bush. We are eager to see what you believe should be the top issues on your agenda.

We are ready to move forward and plan to stay visible—and assertive—in working with the Obama administration and the next Congress to secure rights for all.

You and your family will restore dignity to the White House and the United States of America. Good luck, Mr. President.

Pam Spaulding
Durham, N.C.–based blogger 

Letters from other contributors are below the fold.
Here are some of the other contributors to the project, I was in really impressive company—I didn’t find out until publication who they would be:

        Tammy           Baldwin, Democratic member of Congress from     Wisconsin     

        Daniel           Tammet, author of Born on a Blue Day             

        Evan           Wolfson, Executive director of Freedom to Marry           and author of Why Marriage Matters: America,              Equality, and Gay People’s Right to Marry             

        Joe           Solmonese, President of the Human Rights     Campaign     

        Melissa           Etheridge, singer-songwriter     

        Michelangelo           Signorile, radio host and author of Queer in America             

        Tammy           Bruce, radio talk-show host and author of The New               American Revolution             

        Kenji           Yoshino, professor at New York University     School           of Law and the author of Covering: The     Hidden               Assault on Our Civil Rights             

        Vestal           McIntyre, author of ?You Are Not the One            and the forthcoming Lake Overturn             

        Jarrett           Lucas, codirector of the 2008 Soulface Q     Equality Ride     

        Michael           Lowenthal, author of Charity Girl and Avoidance             

        Suzanne           Westenhoefer, comedian and star of the     documentary               A Bottom on Top             

        Jim           Buzinski, CEO and cofounder of Outsports.com     

        Perez           Hilton, blogger, radio host, and television     personality     

        Carole           Midgen, former California state senator     

        Pam           Spaulding, Durham, N.C.-based blogger     

        Paris Barclay, Executive Producer/Director           HBO’s In     Treatment             

        Lorri           L. Jean, CEO, Los Angeles Gay and Lesbian     Center     

        Jeffrey           Prang, Mayor of West Hollywood     

        Jorge           Valencia, Executive director and CEO of Point     Foundation     

        Mark           Leno, California assemblyman     

        The           Reverend Doctor Troy D. Perry, founder and           moderator emeritus, Metropolitan Community Churches\     

        Mara           Keisling, Executive Director, National Center     for           Transgender Equality     

        Donna           Rose, transgender activist     

        Peter           Tatchell, LGBT human rights campaigner and           spokesman for OutRage!     

        Rachel           B. Tiven, Executive Director, Immigration     Equality     

 

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Posted by Pam Spaulding on 09:30 AM • (15) Comments

Pam, could you make express reference in your letter to adding sexual orientation as a protected class in federal anti-discrimination laws?

Comment #1: Luke  on  12/11  at  09:42 AM

Can’t now, it’s already published, but I’m sure it’s mentioned in one of the many other letters.

Comment #2: Pam Spaulding  on  12/11  at  09:49 AM

I think it’s a well-thought-out letter. It strikes the right tone between acknowledging that every progressive group is going to be clamouring (and rightly so) while still making it clear that he’s not going to get a pass if there’s no action. And the specific actions requested are reasonable and perfectly doable in one term. I’m pretty sure even the leaders of the armed forces know “don’t ask don’t tell” is a joke.

As an aside, I’m really happy they got Dr. Perry of the Metropolitan Community Churches. Legal recognition of SSM is in part about insuring religious freedom, including that of religions that wish to celebrate and sanctify it.

Comment #3: Andrew  on  12/11  at  10:02 AM

It is a wonderful letter regardless and agreed re the mention of DADT. One point of confusion for me on DADT is whether Obama could just do away with it in a penstroke under his Commander in Chief powers.

Comment #4: Luke  on  12/11  at  10:12 AM

Luke wrote:

One point of confusion for me on DADT is whether Obama could just do away with it in a penstroke under his Commander in Chief powers.

Technically, no, he cannot, since it’s part of the law; Congress would have to change the law.  But the commander-in-chief could order non-enforcement of its provisions.

Comment #5: Dana  on  12/11  at  11:06 AM

You know, the thought of writing a letter to President-elect John McCain was so horrific that I simply couldn’t get my fingers onto the keyboard to tap out anything.

Heheh, I don’t blame you a bit.  Anyway he probably doesn’t know how to use a letter.

Comment #6: Notorious P.A.T.  on  12/11  at  12:57 PM

Great letter, Pam, and I agree with Andrew that the tone is exactly right.  And you are in impressive company (with the exception of Tammy Bruce, whose letter to Obama is a festival of wingnutty paranoia).

Comment #7: TomHilton  on  12/11  at  01:49 PM

relying on a check from anyone else…reduces us to servitude.

Tammy Bruce - cognitive dissonance, any?  (What I removed and replaced with an ellipsis is the “especially from the government,” because the statement stands as a testament to stupidity with or without it - it’s a non-essential clause, and I just wanted to highlight the epic fail.)

Comment #8: Atheist Feminazi  on  12/11  at  02:20 PM

Does Tammy Bruce think she’s the gay, female version of George Bush? 

Reading that, I got a visual of a jerk kid with water pistols standing off against a make-believe bully.

Comment #9: deep6  on  12/11  at  03:23 PM

Wow, I just read Tammy Bruce’s letter.

She’s nuts.

Comment #10: Andrew  on  12/11  at  03:24 PM

Your gay? But your hot. That is just so depressing.

Comment #11: Nix  on  12/11  at  05:38 PM

Tammy Bruce is craaaazy.

Comment #12: Rebecca  on  12/11  at  08:43 PM

How about, ‘And please do something about all the families taxed at an extra rate just because they’re not heterosexual or young.’

Comment #13: Crissa  on  12/11  at  08:54 PM

Tammy Bruce is clearly not even in the same galaxy as the “leftist feminist establishment” she claims to be a part of. Her entire letter is nothing more than unvarnished jingoistic right-libertarianism straight out of the darkest corners of usenet. It seems entirely out of place in the (web-)pages of The Advocate.

Comment #14: Dan, Grand High Emperor of Bananas Foster  on  12/11  at  09:14 PM

I am so glad I’m not the only reader who, morbidly curious, clicked on Tammy Bruce’s letter.  She seems deeper into wingnutland than her patron, David Horowitz.  What a terrifying case of teh crazy.

Oh, and your letter’s among the best, Pam.  Thanks for sharing it with Pandagon readers.

Comment #15: Josh, Knyaz of Okonomiyaki  on  12/11  at  10:23 PM
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