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Stars on Ice sponsors deem Olympian Johnny Weir not “family friendly” enough to join tour

Is it me or has the world gotten even more hyperparanoid and confused about sexual orientation and gender expression? In what is both an absurd and incomprehensible decision, GLAAD reports that Stars on Ice sponsors are so concerned about the flamboyance of Olympic ice skater Johnny Weir (or is it his costumes?), that they don’t want him on the tour.

When was the last time male figure skaters and BUTCH coexisted in your mind? Why does it matter anyway? Are Dick and Jane going to be gender confused after a 90-minute ice show? I think these people have lost their minds.

GLAAD has learned from a source that wishes to remain anonymous that sponsors of the Stars on Ice Tour, which include Smuckers and IMG Entertainment, have refused to allow 3-time US National Champion and 2-time Olympian Johnny Weir to participate because they claim that he is “not family friendly.”

To say that Weir is “not family friendly” would be a clear jab at his perceived sexual orientation. Weir is extremely involved with his family. He is putting his younger brother through college, and supports the family financially because his father’s disability prohibits him from working. Weir’s dedication to his family can be clearly documented in the Sundance series, Be Good Johnny Weir, which follows him and his family and friends through his life and career as a championship skater.

Weir’s performance and costume style is sometimes considered flashier than those of other skaters, leading to questions about his perceived sexual orientation. While Weir has not officially announced his sexual orientation, he has garnered a significant amount of LGBT fans. He remains one of the most outspoken skaters today, and won an online poll asking fans “Who would you like to see guest star on Stars on Ice?”

Well that last point shows that the only paranoia exists in the minds of the sponsors. I’m not sure which aspect of Weir set off these alarms—is it the ornate and creative costumes? Over the years, the costumes of male figure skaters have become more free and flamboyant, regardless of the athlete’s real or perceived sexual orientation.

For instance I remember when the incredibly talented Rudy Galindo, the 1987 World Junior Champion and the 1996 U.S. National Champion—and was one of the first figure skaters that I recall coming out of the closet. Take a look at him from this short program at the ‘96 Worlds. I remember his flamboyance and oh-so-gey velvet costume were considered radical.

Now how tame was that? That costume (or his known homosexuality at the time) didn’t stop Galindo from continuing to compete, and to go on to a professional skating career, including a 10-year stint with the Tom Collins’ Champions on Ice show.

Now look at Johnny Weir’s short program at the NHK Trophy last year.

All I’m saying is that it’s all relative, and with a broader acceptance and comfort with self-expression along the gender norm lines within the sport, these sponsors and Stars on Ice need to get a flipping grip.

 

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Posted by Pam Spaulding on 10:35 PM • (50) Comments

Geez, and I thought his crime was being boring and family friendly.  What does he do that’s supposedly not family friendly?

And can Weir sue them for saying such a thing?  Please?

Comment #1: Crissa  on  03/11  at  10:44 PM

Crissa:

And can Weir sue them for saying such a thing?

Probably not, but I bet he wouldn’t have much trouble convincing pretty much everyone in the US skating community to boycott the show.

Comment #2: Dan, Grand High Emperor of Bananas Foster  on  03/11  at  10:49 PM

After seeing Johnny Weir skate in this past Olympics, I really want to see him live. I thought I’d have the chance with Stars on Ice, but maybe I won’t. They’re still adding more skaters, so I hope they reconsider.

Comment #3: Emily  on  03/11  at  10:50 PM

Is it me or has the world gotten even more hyperparanoid and confused about sexual orientation and gender expression?

It’s not just you.  Rudy Galindo’s heyday came during the Clinton era, when society was relatively more relaxed about the fact that he was OH NOEZ TEH GHEY.  Johnny Weir has the misfortune to be in the spotlight at a time when the religious right-wing nutbars are screaming louder than ever, and even the suspicion of being gay is enough to hurt you. 

(Besides, if SOI wants to talk about “not family-friendly”, did they happen to check out the grinding and posing in Yevgeny “WhinyPants” Plushenko’s Olympic long program?  That was enough to give any child, and many adults, nightmares.)

Comment #4: Icewyche  on  03/11  at  11:03 PM

If figure skating has to be “family friendly” it will be another instance of the morons not knowing their audience.  This sport has been as gay as a RenFair pennant since it was first envisioned.  And what’s wrong with that?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qTaVkbl3Dp4 shows his fucking amazing skating, great showmanship, and his stylish but still giant fuck you to the gay-hating world.

I hope smarter heads prevail or, the next thing you know, moronic beauty pageant contestants will start spouting similar nonsense about homosexuals.

Comment #5: 3letterjon  on  03/11  at  11:10 PM

(Oh, and thanks to Balloon Juice for that link.)

Comment #6: 3letterjon  on  03/11  at  11:10 PM

When we have Elvis Stoiko criticizing lack of manliness ... whoo boy!

Comment #7: Ms Kate  on  03/11  at  11:24 PM

Oh please.  The whole sport is as queer as a $3 bill.

Comment #8: BadKitty  on  03/11  at  11:38 PM

I think what pisses me off the most in situations like this is the temerity to claim what “family” is and then be a self-appointed representative of what those families want. I am sure these people would like to believe their audiences consist of nothing but ringlet-bedecked blond apple-cheeked angels and their adoring het parents but the audience is more varied and a good chunk of those kids and parents don’t give a tin shit about the sexual orientation of the athletes. Not to mention that queer athletes are an inspiration to queer, questioning and het kids alike. But I guess only the straight deserve to be inspirational or inspired.

Comment #9: HooksInMyHead  on  03/11  at  11:44 PM

There is actually a petition for this linked at GLAAD’s blog. Weir is essentially the only top American skater who has not been invited to the tour. Smuckers should keep the politics off the ice.

http://www.gopetition.com/petitions/include-johnny-weir.html

Comment #10: Pizza  on  03/11  at  11:45 PM

Hmmm… what would Brian Boitano do?

Comment #11: Cicero  on  03/11  at  11:45 PM

Whip up a fabulous appetizer, darling. Then hopefully make a statement about what utter horseshit this is.

Comment #12: HooksInMyHead  on  03/11  at  11:56 PM

Where were these people when Phillipe Candeloro from France was doing exhibition skating?  He often ended up wearing but a speedo and skates.

Comment #13: phinky  on  03/12  at  12:11 AM

Gay people?  Ice skating?  Perish the thought!!

Comment #14: themann1086  on  03/12  at  12:32 AM

Oh please no, I’ve had that song stuck in my head for about three weeks for no reason (What Would Brian Boitano Do). 

I watched the Poker Face video and it was probably the gayest thing I’ve seen in a while.  But my reaction to that was sort of ... “And?”  Really, men’s figure skating is generally pretty ... gay.  If you’re able to catch the gay now from simply watching men in sequins, then they should just make men’s figure skating (and ballroom and so on) illegal and have done with it. 
 
I also have to wonder if this isn’t some residual hatin’ from the incident with whassis name from American Idol.  As if Weir’s going to have someone climb down on the ice and simulate sex acts with him.

Comment #15: BonAppetit  on  03/12  at  12:43 AM

I think what pisses me off the most in situations like this is the temerity to claim what “family” is and then be a self-appointed representative of what those families want.

And this is any more piss-offable than the typical right-wing assumption that they speak for God?

Comment #16: Phoenician in a time of Romans  on  03/12  at  01:22 AM

I love the segment on Weir on “That’s Gay” where figure skating is rated more gay than “competitive ass-fucking.”

http://current.com/groups/thats-gay/

Seriously, why is it in athletics that Johnny Weir is not considered “family friendly”... but people who abuse and kill dogs like Michael Vick or rapists like Ben Roethlisberger and Kobe are considered G-rated?

Comment #17: TCB  on  03/12  at  03:33 AM

Well now, with Candeloro they might have a point on the “family friendly - he’s very very freiendly - but isn’t that a woman getting the lapdance?

Comment #18: phylosopher  on  03/12  at  03:57 AM

Ice skating is too gay.

Ice skating is too gay.

What next? Bigots claiming basketball has too many black people?

Oh, wait.

Comment #19: No One of Consequence  on  03/12  at  04:19 AM

I think what pisses me off the most in situations like this is the temerity to claim what “family” is and then be a self-appointed representative of what those families want.

And this is any more piss-offable than the typical right-wing assumption that they speak for God?

Yes, because while not every human being experiences a communion with whatever horrid, foul deity rightwingers pray to, everybody has a relationship to a family. If they claim God, they are ignorable. If they claim family, they pretty much get God as well. A claim on “values” isn’t really as debatable as a theological point, nor is it quite as abstract. Once somebody can tell you what “family values” are there isn’t really anything they can’t tell you.

That crazy dude outside the supermarket says he speaks for God. Everybody needs a hobby. But he doesn’t follow you home and tell you what your kids should be watching unless he’s a rightwinger.

Comment #20: No One of Consequence  on  03/12  at  04:27 AM

It’s like they were in a coma for several decades drooling over the female figure skaters and have just now realized figure skating is gay and are desperate to Butch. It. Up.

Yeah, you save figure skating for the heteros, good luck with that. Ooh, next up you can bring back feminine demureness to women’s ice hockey. Idiots.

Comment #21: Cerberus  on  03/12  at  04:32 AM

Here’s the Candeloro link,

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V9_ckRd2zl8&feature=related

Comment #22: phylosopher  on  03/12  at  04:49 AM

I watched the Poker Face video and it was probably the gayest thing I’ve seen in a while.  But my reaction to that was sort of ... “And?”

My reaction was “EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!” but then again, some of my most guilty pleasures are Lady Gaga and pretty boys. :D And I’m not sure what’s so gay about having so many women screaming their heads off at your athletic body either… smile

Comment #23: Bagelsan  on  03/12  at  04:51 AM

The notions:

(1) you can tell he’s gay by just watching his skate, and
(2) even if he’s straight, the problem with him is that he looks too gay

are pretty ludicrous, really.

Comment #24: rea  on  03/12  at  09:54 AM

Nobody should let them get away with using that weasel-grease euphemism “family friendly”. Make’em say the actual words “We think he looks gay and we think gay people are disgusting and children should not be allowed even to look at them”. See how many families find that a friendly statement.

Comment #25: MissPrism  on  03/12  at  10:11 AM

Evan Lysachek wore VERA WANG—noted wedding dress designer.  Who came to extra fame by designing FEMALE ice skating costumes.  We have her to thank for all the illusion netting.

Evan wore FEATHERS.

Johnny wore black, too, so what’s the problem?  That he’s more flexible?

Johnny kicked ass and deserved to finish much higher.  He had no chance with the political problems he’s had with TPTB, but he’s beautiful.

Comment #26: Caren-Sun-blocking Creator of Animorphic Pancakes  on  03/12  at  10:18 AM

Oh, and I’m totally with MissPrism.

Fuck that.  I find bigotry much less “family friendly” than LGBT people, even if it’s dressed up with “We’re Christians(tm)!”

Comment #27: Caren-Sun-blocking Creator of Animorphic Pancakes  on  03/12  at  10:19 AM

I don’t think it’s what Weir does on the ice that is causing so much ire.  He does act slightly more flamboyant than the other skaters collectively but I willing to bet this has far more to do with his behaviour off the ice.  Notably “cross dressing” and strutting (fabulously I might add) around in heels.  It’s not “just” that he is gay but he dares to test those gender boundaries as well.

Comment #28: hypatia  on  03/12  at  10:25 AM

hypatia, that’s entirely it: he’s not ashamed.  He’s not just the cute boy the stereotypical pearl-clutching grandmothers can adore from afar.  He’s more than that shiny, polished, beautiful creature they want to think is all about hard work and dedication to L’Arte d’Eskatingfigure.  What he is is dangerous to their worldview.

For similar sexist and moronic ramblings, look at the fact that ski jumping can’t be a women’s event in the Olympics because the powers that be are still hiding behind some 1938 decision that it is likely to cause a woman’s uterus to fall out.  Never mind that the world’s record for the longest jump is currently held by Lindsay Vonn, just hide behind the issues of health and “competitiveness”.  Competitive with men, they mean.  But don’t look at the little man behind the curtain.

Comment #29: 3letterjon  on  03/12  at  10:41 AM

Their definition of family friendly doesn’t go for my family. Especially since the children(tm) aren’t going to go to ZOMG, GAY just because they see a man in a pretty outfit. To a six year old, a man in an outfit is just a man in an outfit.

Comment #30: shannon  on  03/12  at  11:16 AM

These people are seeerioiusly into denying the most fundamental and basic forms of reality in favor of their self-constructed fantasy worlds.  Magical thinking that global warming doesn’t exist if THEY don’t want it to ... or that you can catch gay from effeminate guys.  Sheesh.  Like a bunch of small children they are, sans imagination and wonderment.

Someone should tell them that fantasy worlds are just ... so ... gay!

Comment #31: Ms Kate  on  03/12  at  11:20 AM

With a name like Smuckers ...

Comment #32: Ms Kate  on  03/12  at  11:20 AM

Here’s the Candaloro link ...

OMG!  OMG! OMG! He’s ... so .... tasty ! nom nom nom!

Comment #33: Ms Kate  on  03/12  at  11:25 AM

He’s the only ice skater that actually caught my attention this Olympics.  I love how he’s completely over the top.

Comment #34: Amanda Marcotte  on  03/12  at  11:49 AM

Part of it is that showing that flamboyance and gender-bending can go hand-in-hand with athleticism is something middle America is supposedly too stupid to understand.  But it makes no sense!  Ice skating has always been about glittery performance, which is considered inherently feminine in our culture, and Americans love it.

Comment #35: Amanda Marcotte  on  03/12  at  11:55 AM

“I don’t think it’s what Weir does on the ice that is causing so much ire.  He does act slightly more flamboyant than the other skaters collectively but I willing to bet this has far more to do with his behaviour off the ice.  Notably “cross dressing” and strutting (fabulously I might add) around in heels.  It’s not “just” that he is gay but he dares to test those gender boundaries as well.”

I think this is right, but I’ll got further. IMO, every male figure skater is presumed to be gay by the general public, unless there’s public evidence to the contrary. (Which is a whole other can of stereotyping worms)

I think Weir’s probably being punished for his off-ice persona and likelihood of saying something that will attract the fundy butthurt eye of Sauron, moreso than the fact of being gay. And, isn’t he violating figure skating norms by sorta publically being a real person off the ice? I may be totally wrong on that, not really following the sport, so correct me if I’m wrong. If I’m right about that, I think that plays into it also. Olympic sports seem to be freakishly prudish. Beer and champagne after a hockey championship was a scandal to these people?????!!!????

“For similar sexist and moronic ramblings, look at the fact that ski jumping can’t be a women’s event in the Olympics because the powers that be are still hiding behind some 1938 decision that it is likely to cause a woman’s uterus to fall out.  Never mind that the world’s record for the longest jump is currently held by Lindsay Vonn, just hide behind the issues of health and “competitiveness”.  Competitive with men, they mean.  But don’t look at the little man behind the curtain.”

I hadn’t noticed how bullshit this sport is until the past Olympics. Why is it not just who jumps the farthest? The judges are there for what? The whole judges thing in general turns me off, but obviously you can can’t do figure skating without them. You sure could do ski jumping though. Maybe retask the judges with standing at the bottom and catching any uteri that fall out?

Comment #36: witless chum  on  03/12  at  11:59 AM

That “Poker Face” routine was probably the most erotic thing I’ve ever seen in ice skating.  There’s a wink and nudge sexuality to much of it, but the eroticism is always bundled up in corniness to take the edge off.  But he openly looked hot.  He wasn’t being corny; he was being campy.  And camp makes people think of sex.  Like actual sweaty sex. 

If more people did routines like that, ice skating wouldn’t be near the joke that it is.

Comment #37: Amanda Marcotte  on  03/12  at  12:07 PM

I think the most hilarious moment in Ice Skating was when a pairs couple came out on the ice in very shiny shiny blue unitards and a female commentator said something to the effect of “Scotty,  admit it - you want one” and Scott Hamilton made an affirmative “mmm hmmm!” sound.

Comment #38: Ms Kate  on  03/12  at  12:12 PM

Is it me or has the world gotten even more hyperparanoid and confused about sexual orientation and gender expression?

Backlash, probably, as we’ve often surmised.  World is changing (in parts), lines are blurring, and it freaks people out.  That Life and Style invective against Shiloh Jolie-Pitt’s self-expression was the final straw for me. Just this morning I picked up my renewed passport at the post office and found the F under SEX kind of…well, quaint-looking in its exclusive taxonomy. And I’m cis.  That is, even cissies are walking around nowadays finding M/F-only options old-fashioned at best, fucked up at worst. We need to expand the category to include trans and genderqueer, or ditch it all.

If we can expunge the false binary from our culture, the hysteria about “gender-bending” dress and behaviour and sexual orientation would (eventually) follow.  What? I can dream, can’t I? I’m just so damned tired of these expectations and the hate that comes along with them.

Comment #39: Ranylt  on  03/12  at  12:28 PM

No, it really is this bigotry’s last throes.  That is what we are witnessing.  They are going down gasping, and flailing all around, but they are going down.  For good.  It’s over.

Comment #40: JennyLI  on  03/12  at  12:39 PM

I just had an idea, so I looked/snooped through my son’s facebook logs for the male skating time period of the olympics.  I think I partly know what gets these bastards most of all.

Teen girls lusting after Johnny Weir.

Seriously—there is a great deal of “he’s sooooo cute ... he’s sooo hot ...” followed by “u kno he’s GHEY!” and “so what ... he’s soooo cute”.

Yep - too much to think of Lolitas not only lusting after an effiminate man ... but knowing he’s gay and STILL lusting after him!  THAT’S not “family friendly”!

Comment #41: Ms Kate  on  03/12  at  12:41 PM

This episode reveals - yet again - that in America the totemic praise words “family friendly” actually have nothing to do with family, and nothing to do with any properly moral, normative concerns at all: nothing about love, nothing about empathy, nothing about respect for others, nothing about dignity, nothing about promoting behaviour and choices that are normatively desirable by a proveable, arguable standard, etc.

What they mean instead is adherence to a nomatively arbitrary set of rigid social norms, which are the product of religious superstitions and other impulses towards pathological anger, hatred and disgust with others. Those are the feelings, and that is the kind of life, that social conservative champions of The Family celebrate.

So according to American standards of Family Friendliness, someone who is merely suspected of being gay, who loves and supports his or her family, is actually less “family friendly” than heterosexual wife-beaters, or child abusers, or self-loathing gays who neglect and cheat on their spouses. (And it is worth noting that conservative champions of “the family” have circled their wagons around public and private figures in each of those three categories.)

Comment #42: Luke  on  03/12  at  01:29 PM

What they mean instead is adherence to a nomatively arbitrary set of rigid social norms, which are the product of religious superstitions and other impulses towards pathological anger, hatred and disgust with others. Those are the feelings, and that is the kind of life, that social conservative champions of The Family celebrate.

FTW.

Comment #43: Ranylt  on  03/12  at  01:51 PM

And Luke, for the big points, hits all the nails squarely.

Comment #44: helen w. h.  on  03/12  at  02:54 PM

phylosopher, thanks for the youtube link.

Comment #45: helen w. h.  on  03/12  at  02:55 PM

I loves me some Johnny Weir.  Seriously, beside the gender-fuck, which is all sorts of awesome, he sounds like a fascinating person.  I hope he is able to transcend the usual Stars on Ice or Disney on Ice or whatever and become known outside of figure skating.

Comment #46: kitten parade  on  03/12  at  03:00 PM

Of course, during the Olympics, there are people who watch figure skating religiously who would never be caught dead watching it at any other time. I wonder if it’s like homophobic closet cases.

Comment #47: BrianX  on  03/12  at  03:21 PM

You’re welcome, Helen.

ANd phinky, from what I was able to find, it’s Plushenko who gets down to a speedo and a muscle suit, not Candolaro.  And presumably he’s doing a sarcastic hit on Candolaro’s “beefcake” popularity - which would mean that the show actually had to orchestrate those bits?

Sorry, it was late last night - and I just followed the youtube trail - why oh why?

Comment #48: phylosopher  on  03/12  at  03:28 PM

Notably “cross dressing” and strutting (fabulously I might add) around in heels.

That Dennis Rodman sure was a character.

Comment #49: Sarcastro  on  03/12  at  05:05 PM

Someone may have pointed this out already, but I can’t help but wonder if a big part of this is just because a bunch of pudgy, middle-aged white men turned on their TVs and saw a world-class athlete who is in 1,000x better shape than they are acting a little (okay, a lot) light in the loafers, and felt all threatened and shit.

Comment #50: Sour Kraut  on  03/12  at  07:22 PM
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