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Watch one progressive bus run over Rachel Maddow and the LGBT community

I don’t know how many of my readers surf around the general progressive blogosphere regularly, but you can get a taste of the blowback the LGBT community is receiving for deigning to ask why the Obama administration has been silent regarding his self-proclaimed “fierce advocate” role.

Check out this diary by Clarknt67 at the big progressive orange, Daily Kos, “Rachel Maddow examines Candidate Obama vs. President Obama on GBLT.” Clark features the video from Rachel’s show the other day (I blogged it here), where she took on the disingenous behavior by the White House regarding DADT and had on Rep. Rush Holt (D) to discuss how the country is ready for repeal and that there would be little political capital expended to stop the discrimination.

Clark issues this simple statement:

With seventy plus public approval on repealing don’t ask, don’t tell, I kinda don’t get why Obama doesn’t just rip that bandage off swiftly and make these complaints go away.

Oh sure, we’d still want ENDA, we’d still want DOMA gone, we’d still want Uniting American Families Act, we’d still want Matthew Shepard Act. But I think the perception that something, anything was moving forward for the GBLT community during this supposed great period change, would be a huge PR win with most people.

Well, you should see the litany of criticism in the comments, many lodged against Rachel Maddow and the LGBT community for calling President Obama on the DADT, and the alternate silence and evasion on the executive order issue.

My outline of the predictable reaction is below the fold.
The panicked “the gays won’t shut up” progressive reaction follows a predictable get-to-the-back-of-the-bus pattern:

* He’s just been in office four+ months, give him a break.

The usual sit down in the back of the bus and shut up, you’re whining argument (haven’t we heard that before - “we have to get re-elected” “watch out for the midterms,” blah, blah). As if we should sit with our hands folded in our laps and let slide the utterly ridiculous non-answers coming out of the mouth of otherwise-articulate Press Secretary Robert Gibbs (the Blend files are filling up quickly) when he’s asked about DADT.

Or ignore the lack of public comment or press release from the White House regarding any of the landmark marriage equality gains occurring around the country. Look at what happened on the day Prop 8 was upheld by CA’s Supreme Court—the White House pumped out a press release announcing President Obama’s Proclamation of National Hurricane Preparedness Week, but nothing on Prop 8, and Robert Gibbs could only squeak out during the day’s presser that “I have not talked to the President about it.” He never did follow up with any news about what the President’s reaction was, btw.

Or that the LGBT community should say nothing about the separate-but-equal answer our constitutional scholar, child of an inter-racial marriage President gave to Brian Williams in an interview when he was asked “Do gays and lesbian couples who wish to marry have a friend in the White House?” (check out the telling body language):

I think gays and lesbians have a friend in the White House because I’ve consistently committed myself to civil unions, making sure that they have to visit each other in hospitals, that they are able to access benefits, that they have a whole host of legal rights that they currently do not have. I don’t think it makes sense for the federal government to get in the business of determining what marriage is. That isn’t traditionally the federal government’s role.”

* He has to handle the more important (name the progressive issue) first, not spend all his political capital on divisive issues like LGBT rights.

Last time I checked, the LGBT community cares about many of the same things the progressive community cares about—reforming health care, protecting the environment, restoring the country’s reputation abroad, etc. And they are important issues to address after Bush’s and the GOP’s reign of terror. I don’t hear anyone in the comments of this blog arguing that LGBT rights should come first. We’re pointing out the fact that this President “fierce advocacy” has morphed into silence and dodges, and with DADT actual support and funding of a discriminatory policy that places our national security at risk. With 70% of public support behind repeal, he has done nothing to 1) push this policy with the jellyfish on the Hill with the bully pulpit or 2) sign an executive order to stop the discharges while Congress sorts out the legislative angle. This administration claims it’s helpless to do anything, yet doesn’t ask for a review of the legality of President’s power to use a stop-loss order for this purpose. Should we not ask these questions? Candidate Obama criticized John McCain for having an inability to multi-task. Apparently it’s ok with some progressives that President Obama can’t handle

discussion of LGBT policy and, oh, say health care. Pointing out the President’s inability to lead in any respect on LGBT issues is clearly pissing some of our progressive “friends” off. We’re making him take the eye off of the ball. Sorry, I didn’t know basic civil rights is a back burner issue. I’ll come back later. I love this comment by Clark:

Obviously he’s booked in 2009. How about 2010? Seems that won’t be good, he and promient Dems won’t put GBLT issues on the table so close to mid-terms. 2011? The re-election process will begin in full swing by then, can’t jam up his electoral college chances in 2012. I’m sure he’ll definitely be penciling us in for early-2012, right?

* Rachel Maddow is pushing “her issues” too hard and is being too hard on the President. Jesus Christ, this one makes me sick, and again, I knew this was coming as well. Rachel has been consistently hailed by progressives day in and day out to date. Now all of a sudden she is on the sh*t list of these Kossacks who seem to have forgotten all of the smart progressive reporting and commentary on a full range of issues, not just LGBT ones. The snark they came to know and love is now bitching and moaning to them because she dared to point out the Obama administration is continuing to support DADT.

As you all may recall, I took quite a bit of flack by the same progressives (and some LGBTs) for disagreeing with Rachel about her approach during an interview with Mike Huckabee last year (because she didn’t ask him about his litany of outlandish homophobic statements). At the time I was inanely charged with saying Rachel should cover LGBT issues more, which was not the case at all; I just thought this particular pol, who benefits from a golly-gee persona that allows him to get away with a lot in interviews,  needed to be nailed for comparing homosexuality to bestiality and incest, among other things. The criticism I took was amusing on some level—accusations that I was jealous and wanted my own TV show (ha!), that I didn’t like or respect Rachel (!?), that she, as an out lesbian, shouldn’t cover LGBT issues or it will jeopardize her presence on national TV (she said she had editorial control of her program, so that theory was quickly squashed)—all giant leaps with no basis in fact. They were made in passionate defense of Rachel—that I understand on some level— precisely because she is that good and talented. But when I saw President Obama start his dodge and parry on LGBT issues, I knew Rachel was going to be thrown under the bus pronto by the same progressives for simply applying the same standard of treatment she gives to all issues to LGBT issues. But now the progressives are in the business of defending Barack Obama from teh angry ingrate gayz.

What’s wrong with this picture? The problem with some in the progressive community (and obviously some in the LGBT community as well) is that they conflate Rachel’s sexual orientation and her political viewpoint when it doesn’t suit them. It seems to escape people that it is possible that she is discussing these issues as a progressive who

happens to be gay, not as a person who is simply advocating a pro-gay POV because

she is gay. That people go there so quickly is pretty troubling. If Rachel (or I) were straight and discussing these issues in the exact same manner, would we be seen as pushing a “personal agenda”? I seriously doubt it.

Look at these comments from the DKos post.

Obama has been in Office 4 months - Rachel has been bashing him for 4 months.  Fox news attacks from the right and Rachel attacks from the left. I know that many here love the battles but I’m one of the great silent majority who doesn’t.  I don’t even watch Olberman anymore. I don’t care for his constant attacks on the right.

STOP behaving as if the world has ended, obama took office 5 MONTHS AGO, i am tired of the nagging DAMN IT. The republicans in new york carried out a sucessful coup yesterday, thanks to gay marriage debate. Please let Obama fix the economy before your nagging gets another republican in office. THANK YOU VERY MUCH.

Rachel’s become another talking head, looking to inflame rather than enlighten.

Quoting Bob Cesca: Rachel Maddow reported tonight that the DADT case the Supreme Court rejected today was totally irrelevant to overturning the military law, and that the rejected case absolutely was not the one LGBT activists wanted to see brought up before the Supremes. Yet she’s continuing to indict the president on the issue despite the above considerations and without really addressing the political timing.

[T]here is a difference between constructive criticism and the constant bitching Maddow does. And it’s important to recognize the positive things Obama has accomplished. In the time I watched Rachel, she did not to tell 1 100% story about Obama.

[Two commenters called BS on the above]

I think you are using a bit of hyperbole…I think you may only see the negative discussed here, but if you watched the show you would see positive Obama stories as well.

As have I…
recently, her coverage of Obama’s speech in Egypt was very positive, characterizing it has being nearly universally well received. She’s acknowledged the smart political choice of Sotomayor, even as she has lamented that Sonia is not a progressive. She frequently turns her snark and sarcasm on critics of Obama who seek to make hay over stupid issues like the dinner and theater date.]

Thankfully, the DKos thread is also populated with reality-based people who saw exactly what was going on in the comments. I give you homogenius:

Don’t you know that over in Fantasyland Obama is doing everything perfectly and all us silly homos should just shut up?

For the most part, I think Obama’s doing a terrific job. But the reality is that he has not given LGBT people cause to trust him. From McClurkin to Warren to his seeming disinterest in taking any action or exerting any leadership in the White House for advancing our civil rights, he has given us little reason to trust him.

Here it is in plain language for all his apologists here who are telling us to be patient in the face of seeming inaction:

  LGBT people have NOT ONE federal law that protects ANY of our civil rights.

It’s time for us to wake up. If we don’t get a single bill passed and signed in this congress, it’ll be time to rethink our approach. The Dallas Principles are all fine and dandy, but there’s no stick. What LGBT people should do is add a deadline and an “or else”. If we don’t have full equality by a specified year, we start shutting down major American cities through civil disobedience.

The majority never gives rights to a minority just for the asking. Like everyone else, we have to fight for them. I’ve never been arrested at a protest (or otherwise). But that day could be coming. We may yet see the day when LGBT people and our supporters cry “To the barricades”!

Thank you. People should see this as a wake up call that there are a lot of fair-weather friends out there when you’re fighting the right wing and out of power together. Once in power, it’s quite predictable that a good number reflexively slip into their heterosexual, full civil rights privilege and feel the need to tell us to pipe down when they don’t have to worry about those of us who are second class citizens under the law. And that’s why we have to stay vocal and stay visible—no matter who is driving the bus.

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Posted by Pam Spaulding on 01:40 PM • (35) Comments

One commenter at my pad aptly noted the double standard:

That for white straight men of all stripes, a minority person cannot be at all as varied as white straight men. They are a minority and if they talk about evil minority issues then of course they are biased unlike the good white straight man who doesn’t at all think they are important, because hey fixing that inequality would decrease the specialness of white straight men.

Especially on the “she’s focusing too much” attack. Keith Olbermann and Jon Stewart were much more vocal a lot earlier on a lot of this BS, including criticizing the president on this and other issues.

But you know, she’s a she and one of “them”. So yeah…

Comment #1: Pam Spaulding  on  06/11  at  01:43 PM

Down-the-line Obamabots are really, really, really annoying. Those among them who actually are progressives need to wake the fuck up and remember the FDR “make me do it” principle.

Comment #2: Steve LaBonne  on  06/11  at  01:58 PM

I’m so pissed off at the “what about the midterms?” and “he has to get re-elected” assholes.

He was elected in part BECAUSE he spoke out on these issues.  We’re asking him to keep his promises.  How can keeping his campaign promises, the ones that got him elected, HURT his re-election chances?

And, fuck it, I KNOW he’s putting it off b/c Rahm thinks it’s better strategy to just do healthcare now, but FUCK IT, keep your promises, Barry.

And if you’re going to concentrate on healthcare, put single-payer on the table, if just to Overton the window away from Big Pharma and Big Insurance.  Expanding Massachussetts’ ‘make everyone BUY insurance’ is not the solution for anyone buy the insurance companies.

Comment #3: Caren-Sun-blocking Creator of Animorphic Pancakes  on  06/11  at  02:08 PM

Yeah, I agree with Steve LaBonne.  Really, DADT has been one of the outright confusions I’ve had; repealing the law would be overwhelmingly popular, and it’s not like an African-American man can’t see the parallels with Truman integrating the armed forces.

Comment #4: Punditus Maximus  on  06/11  at  02:17 PM

The homosexual community will receive very little from the first Obama administration. They will probably have to wait until his second term before they see any promises fulfilled.  They have been DLC’d.

Comment #5: mnsr  on  06/11  at  02:39 PM

I’m a huge fan of Rachel Maddow. I podcasted her show *every day* when it was on the radio. She hardly ever talks about gay/lesbian issues. She talks about them less than any other gay/lesbian blogger, columnist or commentator of any kind that I know.

People who say she talks about this too much are either unfamiliar with her show, or think any mention of gay/lesbian rights are too much.

Comment #6: MissCherryPi  on  06/11  at  02:44 PM

I am mystified by all the progressives saying that Obama ought to repeal DADT.  The president doesn’t get to repeal statutes.  He has called for the repeal of this one, but Congress has to do it

Comment #7: rea  on  06/11  at  02:47 PM

I can’t even read all of this.  My advice is don’t ever read Kos.  The owner is a sexist middle of the road throw the “santomonious women’s studies set” and I’m sure the gays, off the bus, asshole, and so are most of his followers.  It pisses me off when KO has him on, and I won’t watch his show on those nights.  I hate that fucking arrrogant asshole.

Comment #8: Lady Vader  on  06/11  at  02:49 PM

Talk is cheap. Presidents have to do more than half-heartedly “call for” passage of legislation if they actually want it to happen.

Comment #9: Steve LaBonne  on  06/11  at  02:49 PM

Rachel has been doing incredible work on the right wing terrorism against women health providers.  I guess she isn’t allowed to mention gay issues though.

Comment #10: Lady Vader  on  06/11  at  02:50 PM

Did Maddow bother asking Rep. Holt if he’s working on a bill to repeal DADT?  If not, why not?  Incidentally, his own web page has nothing except an op-ed he wrote calling for its repeal.  Why is he sitting on his ass?

Comment #11: keshmeshi  on  06/11  at  02:51 PM

Repealing DADT would be overwhelmingly popular outside the punditocracy and Congress.  Within those two groups though, he’d be savaged mercilessly.  He should still do it, because it’s the right fucking thing to do, but it’s going to cost.

Comment #12: libdevil  on  06/11  at  02:52 PM

That for white straight men of all stripes, a minority person cannot be at all as varied as white straight men. They are a minority and if they talk about evil minority issues then of course they are biased unlike the good white straight man who doesn’t at all think they are important, because hey fixing that inequality would decrease the specialness of white straight men.

The great irony of this is how closely it mirrors the GOP’s pearl clutching over Sotomayor.  Her gender and ethnicity are evidence of her inability since obviously someone with her characteristics could not have achieved anything intellectually were it not handed to her.  In a similar way Maddow’s sexual orientation is automatically used to dismiss her as narrow, self-centered, and irrational.  The only people who are not engaged in parochial identity politics, in their eyes, are white het men.

Comment #13: pennylane  on  06/11  at  03:07 PM

I am mystified by all the progressives saying that Obama ought to repeal DADT.  The president doesn’t get to repeal statutes.  He has called for the repeal of this one, but Congress has to do it.

Correct, DADT must be repealed ultimately through legislative action…

HOWEVER, President Obama can issue an Executive Order putting an immediate stop to all DADT military dismissals until the issue is dealt with legislatively.

And, if the issue really matters that much to him, he CAN publicly hold a press event in which he directly appeals Congress telling them that it is time to repeal DADT.  Healthcrae reform is also going to be dealt with legislatively, and Obama hasn’t had trouble finding time to speak out about it regularly.

He hasn’t done any of this.  The frustration within the LGBT community, and for that matter anyone of goodwill who believes in equality for all citizens, is fully warranted here.

Comment #14: DTG in STL  on  06/11  at  03:13 PM

HOWEVER, President Obama can issue an Executive Order putting an immediate stop to all DADT military dismissals until the issue is dealt with legislatively.

This. I forgot about that part.

Comment #15: Steve LaBonne  on  06/11  at  03:40 PM

I was sympathetic to “now is not the time” arguments… in 1993. I’m not sure how anyone who truly believes in equal rights for the LGBT community and who has been paying attention for more than two electoral cycles can fall for “now is not the time.” I’m ready to hit the barricades.

Comment #16: vladimir  on  06/11  at  05:17 PM

I think public pressure on Obama over this can only be a good thing. I’m glad Stephen Colbert dealt with the issue in front of the troops in Iraq, too. My impression is that the leading voices of the progressive blogosphere has been very unified in saying that “now is the time” and holding Obama accountable over this. Certainly, its fair to note we need Congress to show some leadership on this, too, but it seems clear that Obama has enough authority to suspend DADT. What’s more, doing so would put pressure on Congress to act. The fact is, we should have been whipping up support for this last year. I get that it might take some cajoling, but why was no one in Congress already leading on this. No matter who was elected, we should have been ready to have a repeal of DADT on their desk. At this point, public agitating is part of the process. Its demonstrating that the country is ready for this. It will break down opposition. People like Rachel Maddow holding Obama accountable know is setting the stage. Surely even the pragmatists can recognize the valuable role that serves if their pragmatism really is in service of idealism.

Comment #17: BStu  on  06/11  at  06:27 PM

I honestly don’t think ending DADT would have much political impact any more.  It’s time.  Everything has it’s time; it’s time to end DADT.  But, just remember, when it was enacted at first it was seen as a pro-gay move that cost Clinton dearly.  We should be careful of what we ask for.  The lesson of DADT is don’t ask for band-aids or symbolism.  Make sure what you ask for is what you want and that it’s substantive. Don’t settle for less even if it’s going to take more time.

Comment #18: Magis  on  06/11  at  06:34 PM

“STOP behaving as if the world has ended, obama took office 5 MONTHS AGO, i am tired of the nagging DAMN IT. The republicans in new york carried out a sucessful coup yesterday, thanks to gay marriage debate. Please let Obama fix the economy before your nagging gets another republican in office. THANK YOU VERY MUCH.”

This guy just needs to fuck off. Obama said he would get DADT repealed. He needs to fucking DO IT.

Comment #19: Mark  on  06/11  at  06:40 PM

Thank you, Pam, for staying on this. Issuing a statement is not leadership. These days, I feel like joining the banner crowd on Penn Ave with a big sign: “Mr. President, what part of ‘the right side of history’ don’t you understand?” Maybe with more eloquent and/or more pissed-off wording.

Comment #20: Shiny  on  06/11  at  07:05 PM

There needs to be a groundswell of pressure on the President and more soldiers like Dan Choi who come out publicly to show the costs of the policy so that this time when the right-wingers inevitably latch on to this in their mad grasp for outrage there will be push-back and not the dithering of faux-gressives who ring their hands and say we ought to give in so we can do other “more important” thing.  Frankly now is an excellent time to end a policy and watch the right-wing attempt to blow up an issue that ranks low on the list of priorities for most people. 

Remember a couple of months ago when the MSM, led by the right, was so CONCERNED about how much Obama was trying to do? I mean you can’t fix the economy AND health care!  And now who’s concern trolling?

Comment #21: pennylane  on  06/11  at  07:45 PM

The circular firing squad is out again, it seems.

Comment #22: Blue Fielder  on  06/11  at  08:05 PM

Man, I said it when the gutless coward was running for President.  He.  Will.  Cave.  Because.  He.  Has.  No.  Spine.

Sure, we get “TRUE BELIEVERS” to lie for him, and they’ve been exposed, but his record over his political career has been amply obvious to anyone who examines it clearly and fairly.  Simply put, he rolls over like a beaten dog then over-compensates by barking loudly from the next room.

Comment #23: MosesZD  on  06/11  at  09:22 PM

The circular firing squad is out again, it seems.

That’s funny. I don’t recall anybody saying “primary Obama” or “vote Green in 2012”.

See, just because you’re a twit who can only understand uncritical support or total opposition but not anything in between, doesn’t mean everybody else is.

Comment #24: Steve LaBonne  on  06/11  at  10:26 PM

Uh, Blue Fielder, fuck you. I don’t mean that as a mere insult, I mean “you’re not on my side, so fuck you.” This rejection pretty much destroys the assertion that there is a “circular firing squad,” a term that refers to self-destruction efforts of persons on the same side as each other. The assholes backing Obama’s plays aren’t on our side, and they weren’t on our side during the Clinton era when black and poverty issues were ignored or exacerbated. They are opponents, like any rightwinger—just far more dangerous. So our aim is true. So is the aim of our opponents.

Comment #25: No One of Consequence  on  06/11  at  10:58 PM

i have nothing useful to add
except an old, huge, blue laz-e-boy recliner that would be perfect at starting a baricade.

i am there. cane and all (and, besides, think of the great PR if cops try to drag off the obviously disabled woman who *has* to walk with a cane while she is agitating for gay rights with her boyfriend? no, really - that sort of thing is the type of PR we need to add to the mix - images of non-GLBTQ people who are fighting for GLBTQ rights *alongside* all the non-straight people. because, sucky as it is, the minority group is never granted basic civil rights until the majority sees “majority representative” working on the issue - think of the Suffragette movement, and how it needed men to enact voting rights, the 60’s Civil Rights campaign, that got a lot of it’s traction because white people marched with non-white people. we need *THOSE* images out there, sitting right next to all the images that are trying to show that gay people are people too.)

Comment #26: denelian  on  06/12  at  04:08 AM

which is to say, most people who are not total wignnuts actually do think (if rather apathetically) that gay people are just as human as non-gay people, that gay people deserve all the rights and protections that non-gay people have, etc.
one of the problems, the one i was trying to talk about above, is that most of the noise is coming from the far-right-fundy-fringe, and so it APPEARS to people who only watch TV that there is *not* a majority opinion that is pro-gay. and so what needs to be shown is that YES, VIRGINIA, most people think that gay people are really people, too.

am i making any more sense than in the last comment? i know what i am trying to say, but articulating it in a coherant manner is frustratingly difficult for some reason…

Comment #27: denelian  on  06/12  at  04:15 AM

I am mystified by all the progressives saying that Obama ought to repeal DADT.  The president doesn’t get to repeal statutes.  He has called for the repeal of this one, but Congress has to do it.

The reality is that we’re talking about the military.  Congress won’t act without direction from the White House.  The White House won’t act without the approval of the Joint Chiefs, and the Joint Chiefs aren’t going to do a damn thing to move the ball forward without leadership from the President.  Ultimately, the buck stops with Obama on this. 

The good news is that he is feeling the pressure.  Let’s keep it up.

Comment #28: BABH  on  06/12  at  07:49 AM

I get what you’re saying, denelian, but the difference this time around is that you can’t tell whether someone’s gay just by looking at them (unlike say, women v. men or black v. white).  Pat Robertson can see a gay-rights rally on TV that is 90% straight, and still dismiss them all as a bunch of fags.

I guess that’s where groups like PFLAG come in.  Most people assume that if you are a parent, you are straight.  So let’s have a specially large turnout of straight folks at the pride parades this year, with big banners proclaiming “We’re opposite-married heterosexual breeders!”

Maybe straight allies need some sort of pin or T-shirt with a clearly identifiable logo - a kind of pink triangle for those who dig PIV.  Any ideas?

Comment #29: BABH  on  06/12  at  08:00 AM

The silly thing about the “he needs to worry about re-election” excuse is that repealing DADT would help him get re-elected, considering the 70% public approval rate.  In fact, I think his procrastination on ending DADT is hurting his chances.  Now, I don’t think this one issue alone would affect his re-election, but there are a probably a few people who won’t vote for him because of this, and it is unwise for him to continue with this pattern.

Comment #30: bananacat  on  06/12  at  10:44 AM

If Obama were going to make a bold move for the LGBT community in his first term, it would have made sense for that move to be now (or before, almost immediately after taking office), when political capital is at a maximum, and when the freshness of opposition sound bites and anti-gay hatemongering will be gone by the 2012 election campaigns.

Doing nothing on the issue, ever, makes apparent just how tepid and uninspiring, unprincipled is his progressivism. Doing something later means inflaming culture wars when the right wing most needs and want those issues to get votes. I think he really made a political mistake on this one (not to mention a moral mistake), unless there is something I am missing? Maybe they underestimated how much they would be pushed by legislative and judicial victories in the states as well as popular scrutiny of the issue.

Comment #31: Luke  on  06/12  at  12:18 PM

Get a load of this:
http://www.americablog.com/2009/06/obama-justice-department-defends-doma.html
I’m beginning to think Obama’s problems with LGBT equality are personal, not just political.

Comment #32: Steve LaBonne  on  06/12  at  12:59 PM

BABH:

i didn’t think of that, and i should have - given the number of people who assume that i am gay or bi because i have friends who are, i really should have.

so… but then, the issue with some sort of thing that non-LGBTQ people wear to say that they are NOT LGBTQ is that then Reps and other pond scum can point and say “look, even their ALLIES think it is bad to be assumed to be gay!”

erm. bad. because why is it bad to be gay, except for all the prejudice against being gay? i don’t mind when people assume that i am gay, only when people try to insult me with it, as if it were an insult. because that’s just insulting those who actually *are* gay.

i don’t know where i am going with this, at all. i see the point and the problem with ID badges or something…
is there a way to do this without making it worse? i really fucking wish i could wave a wand and make everyone equal.

Comment #33: denelian  on  06/13  at  01:38 AM

I have no problem badgering Obama about it. He knows who elected him. Hold his feet to the fire until he does something about it.

Comment #34: BrianX  on  06/13  at  01:46 AM

Maybe straight allies need some sort of pin or T-shirt with a clearly identifiable logo - a kind of pink triangle for those who dig PIV.  Any ideas?

Already exists.  Google, folks.

http://www.cafepress.com/gayapparel/804567

Comment #35: helen w. h.  on  06/15  at  04:40 PM
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