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Working out and being hawt: the partisan double standard

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Jill has a great post up about the double standard for showing off your body if you're a politician, in response to this cover of Men's Health. Yes, that's Aaron Schock, a Republican congressman from Illinois, and those are his abs.  Jill points out that this would be the scandal of the fucking year if that was a female congresswoman.  Not to defend Sarah Palin, but think of all the crap she got when she posed for Runner's World fully dressed.

Of course, the irony is that both Palin and Schock are being sexually provocative, but he's just outdoing her by a mile, because he's a conservative man and he can.  And she got away with it as far as she did because she's also Republican.  Jill says: "Now try to picture Erin Schock, newly elected to Congress, single and a conservative Baptist with some sick abs, on the cover of Women’s Health. Just sayin’."  And to that I say, that could be a problem.  A national scandal, however, would be Erin Schock, pro-choice Democratic congresswoman from Illinois.  The double standard is a male/female one, but that gets projected onto the Republican/Democratic divide. 

I've always been mildly fascinated by how Republicans are permitted far more space to be fitness dorks than Democrats in our culture.  Bush and Clinton had similar workout routines, in terms of going jogging in public, but Clinton was mocked ruthlessly for it and Bush was mostly ignored.  (Turned out that Clinton probably needed it more, what with his heart problems.)  Obama's dedication to playing sports is less of an issue in the mainstream media than Clinton's jogging, but right wingers still make hay of it in a way that liberals wouldn't if the shoe was on the other foot.  Maybe part of it is that health and fitness are turning into culture war issues, and liberals are generally going to fall on the pro-health side.  We feel the sting of hypocrisy in a way conservatives don't, and so seeing someone on the Other Side do something we approve of isn't going to cause us to waste energy trying to make an issue out of it. 

But the elephant in the room on this issue is gender and sexuality, and that's why I think Republicans have a lot more space not only to be fit but to make a fuss over it, as Palin, Schock, and Paul Ryan all do.  Trying to untangle working out as a health practice and as a hobby from the perceived sexual benefits is impossible in our cultural landscape (though obviously individuals do fine, so I don't necessarily see the value of commenters saying because some individuals do it, my cultural observations are invalidated).  So what you have when someone is a workout fanatic and a cultural conservative is the conservative trope of the Sexy Virgin.  By "Sexy Virgin", I don't mean a literal virgin, but someone who is assumed to be sexually conservative and properly judgmental of others, but who plays up their own sexual appeal. The right loves them some Sexy Virgins.  Sexy Virgins exist to reassure people on the right that just because they're anti-sex means they aren't sexy people.  (Much in the same way that black conservatives work to reassure the racists in the Republican party that they're not racist even if they really don't think the President was born here.)  One of the most amusing things about anti-choicers is that they're always trying to claim the pro-choice side is a bunch of sexless hags, and on the occasion they can get a pretty young woman to be a spokesperson (see: Lila Rose, who knows she's a Sexy Virgin and who uses the poses of ingenue starlets in her publicity photos), they're all over it.  The sexless part of being anti-sex is their Achilles' heel, and Sexy Virgins work to counteract that problem.  Leaving me in a constant state of amusement, since the two attacks I frequently get in tandem from antis are: a) you're a slutty slut slut and b) you're a dried-out hag. 

Here's an amusing story of the Sexy Virgin vs. people who perhaps are less interested in the internal politics of right wingers reassuring themselves.  Needless to say, if you haven't encountered the Sexy Virgin much, perhaps it's a little harder to realize that her sexiness is supposed to denote chastity within the circles of Bible-thumpers. You might just think that sexy is supposed to be about sex and not about not-sex. 

Anyway.  There's a strong strain in our culture of allowing people to be sexy if there's heavy reassurance that their actual sexuality is controlled.  Democrats, who are mostly pro-choice, perversely don't get to be sexy because that provokes anxieties that their support for sexual rights means, gasp, lurking affection for bona fide sexual freedom and we can't have that.  So that's where we're at when it comes to the national image-making process around the partisan divide.  Anti-sex views being sold with sexiness while pro-sex folks are, believe me, often deeply worried about making sure their collars are high enough when they go on TV to talk about abortion rights. 

Of course, that's on the national level.  On the local and in-group media level, things are way different. Lila Rose is put forth as the national face of anti-choicers as much as possible on their side, so she can pout and flutter her eyelashes and try to sell you not-sex with sex.  Paul Ryan and Aaron Schock are feeding the press stories and now photos of their sex-ay bodies.  Let's not talk about Sarah Palin.  But on the local and in-group level, right wing media still mostly features a bunch of angry old dudes and church lady sorts hollering about girls these days with their birth control pills and low moral standards.  Meanwhile, the pro-choice movement tries to be attractive-but-not-sexy when putting ourselves in front of the national media, but on the local and in-group level, you're much more likely to see sex-positive feminism being promoted by women who are happy to wear whatever the fuck they like. 

I have more thoughts on gender, working out, and modesty, but that's another post since this one is long enough.  Maybe tonight.

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Posted by Amanda Marcotte on 09:42 AM • (37) Comments

When sexuality is merely a commodity that is displayed but (ostensibly) unused, it’s arguably one of the more genuinely conservative things political conservatives actually do.  It’s a practice that’s warped and designed to reinforce hierarchy, of course, but since the only thing modern political conservatism actually conserves is entrenched/unearned privilege, it’s not at all inconsistent with their ideology either, making it a twofer.  At least.

Comment #1: latts  on  05/10  at  10:53 AM

Good point.

Comment #2: Amanda Marcotte  on  05/10  at  10:57 AM

re: the working out double standard:  Progressives do it because they are healthy, effete hippies.  Conservatives do it because they are TOUGH like Navy Seals.

Se the difference?

Comment #3: Siobhan  on  05/10  at  11:13 AM

Like you and Jill and the comments have said, it definitely all boils down to the male gaze, particularly the conservative male gaze. Women are meant to please the eye and stroke the ego. Hot women speaking conservatively do both—looking ripe for sex AND saying that men know best. Whoo-hoo, jackpot!  Meanwhile, hot women speaking for liberal policies confuse the poor patriarchy, because there she is looking like she will submit to any man alive, but her words threaten male superiority. *gasp!* Therefore, she must be a tricky slut, luring in unsuspecting menfolk with beauty donned for her own ends.  (Ugly women are, of course, worthless; anything they say can just be ignored.)

Comment #4: verity khat  on  05/10  at  11:15 AM

And since Aaron Schock is widely believed to be gay, it gives the Republicans a little cover for “see we like gays if they abstain from sex.”  The sex-ay non-sexual gay male is a little harder for me to wrap my head around, but it seems to be part of the same playbook.

Comment #5: jackspratt  on  05/10  at  11:18 AM

I’m immediately reminded of Seth Meyers at the WHCD: Jon Hamm is who Republicans think they all look like and Zack Galifinakis is who Republicans think all Democrats look like. Schock and his abs really does buttress that joke.

I wonder if Aaron will be shocked that his cover photo may be used as stroke material by fellows. Or maybe that’s the point.

Comment #6: benvolio  on  05/10  at  11:27 AM

My first reaction is: it’s sad that someone would go through all the trouble to make themselves look good for the approval of other people (or Jesus or whatever) and then not be able to benefit fully from it.

Then again, in the Calvinist theology practiced on the Right, being attractive means you have god’s favor and are a virtuous person, while on the Left, being [conventionally] attractive is considered a combination of fortunate birth and specific personal priorities.

Pretty people on the Right are given more credence by their peers beyond the natural human tendency to favor the attractive.  On the Left, we try to fight those natural prejudices.  So maybe within the strict patriarchal framework of conservatism, a woman gains relatively more for working at being attractive than a liberal in a more egalitarian group would.

Given the circumstances, then, working really hard to be pretty might actually be the rational choice for conservative women, even though they don’t get to use that attractiveness to get lots of awesome sex/find a great mate.

(The kicker is that because it requires a lot of commitment and affords social status among their current peers, conservatives who choose to pursue the goal of attractiveness are probably much less likely to discover the more optimal solution of simply coming over to our side.)

Comment #7: Dave Fried  on  05/10  at  11:27 AM

I wonder if Aaron will be shocked that his cover photo may be used as stroke material by fellows. Or maybe that’s the point.

I wouldn’t be surprised, I read that a Playmate of the Year was informed by her second husband about Playboy serving the same purpose for heterosexual male adolescents.

Comment #8: Dark Avenger Guardian Chow Mein  on  05/10  at  11:40 AM

Needless to say, if you haven’t encountered the Sexy Virgin much, perhaps it’s a little harder to realize that her sexiness is supposed to denote chastity within the circles of Bible-thumpers. You might just think that sexy is supposed to be about sex and not about not-sex.

Needless to say, if the sexy-virgin exposes her sexiness then “she’s askin’ for it.”

 

Comment #9: cynickal  on  05/10  at  11:44 AM

I wonder what conservatives think about people who workout and don’t look hot. I workout (on average) about 5 days a week. I am not hot. I am getting older and trying to maintain my health. To paraphrase Louis C. K.: “its not like if I lose twenty pounds I’m gonna start getting laid all the time”.

Comment #10: Mark  on  05/10  at  11:48 AM

I don’t imagine much, Mark. Bush isn’t hawt, but he works out.

Comment #11: Amanda Marcotte  on  05/10  at  12:14 PM

I’ve always thought that conservative men tend to view themselves as having more room to not exercise and to have the God-given right to indulgence in food and drink.  More importantly, the kind of posing for magazines in a state of undress is something that conservative men would view as effeminate.  (Particularly in Schock’s case, since he apparently has no body hair.)  Men, in the conservative worldview, just aren’t supposed to be that into their body image.  Vegetable eating was something mom made you do.  It’s feminine.  Playing manly sports is OK, as is working out because you’re an action star who needs to be ripped on camera, but not working out just to be fit, or posing for magazines.

Comment #12: jeevmon  on  05/10  at  01:19 PM

@Mark #10 - probably the same as they think of people who work hard but don’t make a lot of money or no longer have money due to a misfortune.  You get no credit for your effort and are lumped in the same category as those imaginary welfare queens loafing about asking for handouts.

Comment #13: DonnaDiva  on  05/10  at  01:25 PM

I don’t imagine much, Mark. Bush isn’t hawt, but he works out.

Are you forgetting all the people in the media who were swooning over Bush’s stuffed crotch during his seven years too early Mission Accomplished speech?

I mean seriously they were drooling over what was literally supposed to be his dick.

(Unless you mean Bush isn’t hot independent of his former status as Macho Manly Men’s Man Conservative)

Comment #14: Toitle  on  05/10  at  01:30 PM

Siobhan: Suddenly you’re reminding me of Gordon Liddy and Vince McMahon. I don’t think I can forgive you for that.

Comment #15: BrianX  on  05/10  at  01:45 PM

The whole “sexy conservative” thing seems like it’s based entirely out of spite. For some it’s just an excuse to make fat jokes, and for others it seems like a form of self-denial—“I’m hot and I won’t fuck you even if I’d enjoy it”.

Honestly, being fit is its own reward in terms of health, endurance, etc. However, going out of your way to be sexually attractive with no intention of actually fucking seems thoroughly pointless.

Comment #16: BrianX  on  05/10  at  02:06 PM

I suspect somehow that the pretty and sexy conservative spokesmodels serve another purpose, too - especially since one of their favorite things to throw at anyone they disapprove of is how sexually unattractive they are (feminists are too ugly to get laid, so of course they’re feminists, etc).

The Sexy Virgin (great label, by the way) not only serves to titillate in an approved way, but it also serves to reinforce their perceived moral authority - “See, we have people who are this hot and STILL believe in monogamy, virginity, and mandatory heterosexuality! So for those of us who don’t measure up, we can vicariously be reassured that if we did, we’d still believe the same things.”

Comment #17: Lymis  on  05/10  at  02:36 PM

I suspect somehow that the pretty and sexy conservative spokesmodels serve another purpose, too

They do flatter the unappealing, lower-status white dudes that make up most of the GOP base with attention and validation. 

 

Comment #18: latts  on  05/10  at  03:17 PM

This goes both toward the male/female double standard AND the Dem/GOP standard. I know Josh Marshall of TPM fame kind of gets a kick out Roger Stone and his wife who were, in better days, big ‘swingers’ - but he’s also a dirty trickster oppo researcher and slimer.

http://www.google.com/imgres?imgurl=http://www.nndb.com/people/844/000047703/roger_stone_towel.jpg&imgrefurl=http://www.nndb.com/people/844/000047703/&h=284&w=174&sz=6&tbnid=Koypj4htM0U5KM:&tbnh=114&tbnw=70&prev;=/search?q=Roger+Stone&tbm=isch&tbo=u&zoom=1&q=Roger+Stone&usg=__lDtvybUS3qvHggowXbKDBLmbiTw=&sa=X&ei=4Y_JTaPfE6fv0gHDge3gBw&ved=0CDkQ9QEwBQ

Hope this works, you really have to see this picture, since it has the ‘abs’ stripped to waist shot.

Its frustrating that ‘our side’ doesn’t come down harder on this guy, since he’s such a vicious little reptilian nihilist - really shows that Libertarian and libertine are nearly inseparable.

Comment #19: KingElvis  on  05/10  at  03:28 PM

Amanda:  “There’s a strong strain in our culture of allowing people to be sexy if there’s heavy reassurance that their actual sexuality is controlled.”

And this gets reflected in current fashion (as was discussed on this blog already):  The current popular bra style is almost like a breast codpiece or bustle.  It’s full but not at all revealing, padded so you can’t actually tell how much is breast and how much is foam.  Nipples are totally suppressed. 

It imitates the artificially enhanced breast in its hemisphericality and absolute immobility.  It does push up what you have, so you have cleavage, but it’s manufactured.

So you “look sexy” but your breasts and nipples are totally hidden in favor of a uniform shape.  Nothing moves so you don’t really even look human.

Which leads into the hyper-ripped body shape for men.  Men who work really hard with their bodies don’t all look like the fitness magazine guys.  If you’re naturally lean you could have six-pack washboard abs and look like that, but plenty of hard-working, not-fat guys don’t.  If you go even further into muscle magazine guys, this isn’t a body for fun or work.  It’s for display.

For both men and women, after a certain point, it’s not a personal body any more.  It’s armor, costume, carapace. 

These sexy virgins are like those big shiny expensive overpowered pickup trucks I see around town that have never had anything in the bed.  Pun intended.

Comment #20: oldfeminist  on  05/10  at  03:29 PM

Hope this link works. You really have to see this.

http://www.nndb.com/people/844/000047703/

Comment #21: KingElvis  on  05/10  at  03:44 PM

Nice, oldfeminist.  I laughed.  smile

Comment #22: bomberE  on  05/10  at  03:51 PM

Well, if you’re female and you run for office and you’ve taken these sort of pictures you get voted out of office.
That’s what happened to Carmen Kontur Gronquist, former mayor of Arlington, Oregon.

Apparently she took them for a fitness magazine, didn’t send them in, and then just posted it on her Myspace page.

Comment #23: Shakti  on  05/10  at  04:05 PM

There’s a strong strain in our culture of allowing people to be sexy if there’s heavy reassurance that their actual sexuality is controlled.

Did anyone else flash to Mickey Mouse screaming “Purity rings are how we sell sex to little girls”?

It’s hard to tease apart the aspect of looking good for the sake of others and looking good for your own sake.  Taking care of your appearance is seen as a measure of a person’s self-worth—if you value yourself, you will take the time to maintain an attractive (but not too titillating) appearance.  So dressing up isn’t just a means of attracting men, it’s a way of signaling to other people that you value yourself.  For liberal women it’s a bit of a double bind, I think—if you look too good, you’re a slut, but if you don’t look good enough you don’t value yourself.  For conservative women, the slut factor is muted because it’s assumed that they’re too prim and proper to be slutty.

Comment #24: Jayn Newell  on  05/10  at  04:51 PM

#17/Lymis:  too right.

I think for sexy conservative women it’s also about fulfilling the weird dual aspects of that good old gatekeeper-of-sexuality garbage, where they’re supposed to shut down inappropriate sexual activity but also draw men into ‘proper’ sexual expression - patriarchal marriage.  They’re doing right by enticing the menfolk, not to the bedroom but (through their own commitment and virtue) to the bonds of matrimony.  It’s easy to forget in faux-abstinence cultures that women are still supposed to be the lures.

Comment #25: livinginthepost  on  05/10  at  05:16 PM

The elephant in the room is Obama. He’s far and away the best looking potus of all time (puffy faced Kennedy being overrated) and uses his athletism for political gain as much as any president.

I haven’t seen many objections coming from the right. Off the top of my head, there was an incident where reporteres were ooooing and awing his fugure on a plane during the campaign, and Rwingers made fun of the groupie-like press. I did see people making fun of the pic of him on a bike with a helmut but they were pumas.

I thought Clinton was mocked for being fat and one time running to a fast food joint. Kerry was mocked as euro-elitist (windsurfing, skiing) so Obama wisely plays hoops and hold a football a lot.

Then you have Palin who has been mercileessly mocked for using her sexuality. but that comes from the left.

Comment #26: Manju  on  05/10  at  05:21 PM

Plus this is a new phenom, and may very well tie into the fact that men are expected to be vain these days. its easy to see that as a victory, albeit maybe a faustian one, for feminism.

I couldn’t imagine carter, nixon, ike, LBJ, or FDR playing on their athletisim. That really just leaves Kennedy and Reagan. Reagan did the cowboy thing and JFK pushed the “vigor” meme, releasing photos of him playing football, etc.

Comment #27: Manju  on  05/10  at  05:29 PM

good abs on Schock. There are pics of Obama’s abs out there so a comparsion should be in order. However, Obama’s abs are now Osama-killing abs…so Republicans are totally fucked any way you cut it.

Comment #28: Manju  on  05/10  at  05:34 PM

I haven’t seen many objections coming from the right.

You’re a very bad liar. They constantly say he isn’t paying attention to X because he loves basketball, or he’s playing basketball with staffers. You go to any conservative blog archives and search for basketball there will be invariably an Obama insult.

This isn’t getting into the obsession over Michelle’s arms. And plenty of feminists defended Palin, here, at Shakesville, among others.

Comment #29: bay of arizona  on  05/10  at  05:40 PM

Aaron Schock is a putz… basically, he’s who James O’Keefe probably wishes he was. I think he’s the first (and perhaps only, right now) member of Congress who was born in the 1980s during the Reagan Administration.

Comment #30: DTGslu2K  on  05/10  at  05:50 PM

You’re a very bad liar. They constantly say he isn’t paying attention to X because he loves basketball, or he’s playing basketball with staffers. You go to any conservative blog archives and search for basketball there will be invariably an Obama insult.

I don’t recall that but you do realize that you need to demonstrate a double standard. The meme you say is so common sounds like the Bush-Golf meme.

And plenty of feminists defended Palin, here, at Shakesville, among others.

True. But you were defending her from attacks coming from the left. So you actually help substantiate my point.

Comment #31: Manju  on  05/10  at  06:17 PM

Not really—a mixture of condemnation and support is vastly different from the outright loathing coming from the Right.

The Progressive coalition is a coalition that includes a lot of sexist people.  It has to—in a country where “feminist” is viewed by the mainstream as an insult, any dividing line is going to have sexists on both sides of it.  The difference is that the Progressive coalition includes feminists who extract policy and personal success in exchange for their support.

Comment #32: Punditus Maximus  on  05/10  at  06:48 PM

Part of the IOKIYAR thing here is that iron-jawed and masculine (or crisply feminine with good hair and teeth) is what a conservative politician *is*. It’s not about the issues, because they’ll pivot on those at the drop of a few ten-thousand-dollar checks. It’s not about delivering things that large numbers of voters (as opposed to contributors) ask for, nor about intellect or integrity. So it has to be about the abs and the face and the hair.

Democrats, on the other hand, are supposed to be about real policy and cleaning up after GOP messes, and we all know attractive people can’t be very smart…

Comment #33: paul  on  05/10  at  07:36 PM

Seems almost tragic to mention this given what happened to her, but Gabrielle Giffords did pose for Military Spouse, right next to the headline “Healthy in Bed: Tips for When He Returns Home”. This is the sort of image that could have shattered some double standards:

http://skinny08.files.wordpress.com/2008/10/cover.jpg

I really hope she recovers fully. She is an inspirational woman.

Comment #34: Dilan Esper  on  05/10  at  07:45 PM

I misunderstood the hypothetical at first, and went searching for Erin Schock. May this story be good for her jewelery-from-repurposed-silverware sales.

Comment #35: Cris (without an H)  on  05/11  at  10:34 AM

Personally, I thought the crap Palin got for posing for Runner’s World was how terribly staged it was.

Comment #36: Crissa  on  05/11  at  08:47 PM

How hot can he be with that vacant look in his eyes?

Comment #37: drachonfire  on  05/12  at  09:00 AM
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