What starts out as a banal lifestyle piece:
You’ve heard it before, but I’m not going to browbeat you about the immorality of going all the way on the first night. I’m also not going to say, as the London Telegraph does, that you’re likely to drive away relationship material if, as the adage goes, the man “gets the milk for free.” (If that drives him away, then be glad you’re seeing the taillights.) No, take it from a man who knows: there’s a hidden reason that—if you play it right—you should never have sex on a first date.
takes a turn for the, well, ugly:
Understand that when you tell a guy that you’re not going to have sex, he doesn’t take it as a literal there’s-no-chance you’re getting in my pants; he takes it as a challenge, a chance to rob the gold from Fort Knox. From that point on, he’ll not only want it, he’ll want to get you to want it—and that will bring out the best lover he can be.
DOES NOT FOLLOW.
Oh, but it gets worse - at least from my perspective. I mean, I’m privileged here, so there’s always the possibility that I’m misunderstanding the ramifications for women of something like this: